Happy children are wonderful children

I have two wonderful kids that are even more so when they are happy. What makes them happy is anything but boredom. To fill the life of a child with more than there is to do is actually a gift that mothers have. A hidden gift that is part of a child's education. Where is this going? No where at the moment. Just a thought. And with this thought, I want to share a wonderful meditative exercise called loving kindness meditation. It works for me and should work for you too.

From Being Nobody, Going Nowhere. Meditations on the Buddhist Path. Ayya Khema

Please put the attention on the breath for just a moment to become centred.

Take a look into your heart and see whether there is worry, fear, grief, dislike, resentment, rejection, uneasiness, anxiety. If you find any of those, let them float away like the black clouds that they are...

The let warmth and friendship arise in your heart for yourself, relizing that you have to be your own best friend. Surround yourself with loving thoughts and a feeling of contentment within you...

Now surround the person nearest to you in the room with loving thoughts and fill that person with peace and wish for that persons happiness...

Now surround everyone here with loving thoughts...

Let the feeling of peacefulness extend to everyone here, and think of yourself as everyone's good friend...

Think of your parents, whether they are still alive or not. Surround them with love. Fill them with peace and gratitude for what they have done for you, be their good friend...

Think of those people who are nearest and dearest to you. Embrace them with love, fill them with peace as a gift from you, without expecting them to return it to you.

Think of your friends. Open up your heart to them, to show them your friendship, your concern, your love, giving it to them without expecting anything in return...

Think of your neighbours who live near you, the people you meet at work, on the street, in the shops, make them all you friends, let them enter into your heart without any reservation. Show them love...

Think of anyone for whom you have dislike or with whom you may have had an argument, who has made difficulties for you, whom you do not consider your friend. Think of that person with gratitude, as your teacher, teaching you about your own reactions. Let your heart go out to that person because he or she too has difficulties. Forgive and forget. Make him or her your friend...

Think of all those people whose lives are far more difficult than ours, who may be sick, in hospital, who may be in prison, in an orphanage or in war torn countries, hungry, crippled, blind, without friends or shelter, never able to hear the Dhamma. Open up your heart to all of them. Make them all your friends, show them love, wish them happiness...

Put your attention back on yourself. Feel contentment arising in you from making right effort, happiness that comes from loving and joy that comes from giving. Become aware of these feelings, experience the warmth they create in you and around you...

May all beings be happy.